In His Own Words
About Him
Once bitten, twice shy... That is the story of all of our lives. The question remains- how does one handle the aftermath of any relationship. No matter how or why it ended, there was a time that it was good, and that is what I want to remember- but NOT refer to!
I need... Yes I am using the dreaded word "need", let me elaborate, we all have needs, but as long as it remains a need and not a demand, it can be fulfilled willingly by ones partner.
Let's try again then:
I need companionship, honesty, love (obviously that develops over time) and physical touch (not necessarily be leading to intimacy) but if ever there was "rhetorical" statement, this is one, as we all need these things in life.
Here is where I am now, my book is open, the page is blank and my pencil sharp and ready to write! ...write a new story in my life but also to take notes of the desires in your life and to strive to make them come true for you.
Ek kan natuurlik my hele profiel-relaas ook in Afirkaans skryf, maar ek glo die vrou wat ek in my lewe wil toelaat darem ook Engels kan lees en skryf, al is dit nie haar taal-voorkeur nie.
About His Ideal Match
Of cause "perfect match" is relative, but here goes:
NON-SMOKER- it is a total deal-breaker for me.
Someone that can communicate. I'm no mind reader, so please tell me what is bothering you, and I will do my best to understand AND do something about it. At half-a-century-plus, we all have irritating habits that we are not even aware of, but an outsider quickly pick up on that and it becomes an issue, sooner than later. If it does not become an issue immediately, I have NO doubt it will become one down the line, while communication could have prevented it ...finding myself back here to repeat the cycle of dating- I am NO serial dater, that is what I did quarter-of-a-century ago.
I'm a touchy-feely person, and my match should be that too. Physical touch is something I thrive on. Please don't get me wrong, I am not saying all touch has to lead to something more intimate (but I am certainly not averse to that either) No, it is simply a pleasurable moment, that can be enjoyed anywhere.
What His Friends Say
Sandie said...
Getting involved with my best friend Earl, means sharpening your pencil set and keeping your miniture toolbox fully stocked..... He is no fool and he WILL ascertain your credibility like a human lie detector..... But once you are cleared for take off, he is the last of the best..... He will dedicate his attention to you, smile and whistle while he jumps to your whim.... Etc etc. But don't play him... You will be caught for sure.
Gold diggers should not hazard a walk thru this territory.
Only a foolish woman will walk away from this meeting.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Olympus AH), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
41 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Other; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Wild; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Computer programming; Healthy living; Meditation; Photography; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Motorsport |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Out of control |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
