In Her Own Words
About Her
Because real is my middle name. And real is what I want and expect. Can you be real and not pretend to be anything but yourself?
About Her Ideal Match
The essay will follow.. But basically.. the first lie will set the tone of mistrust and a doomed relationship.. I have had enough of that in my life.. Thank you. (Jaded much!! ) 😉
But seriously tho if you are not THAT guy, you have nothing to worry about..
I will give the benefit of the doubt until you show yourself unworthy of the trust, love and commitment you and I deserve. Simple as that. No games..
If a family is what you want and willing to respect and nurture.. let's meet and see how we click..
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Yes | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Northern Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 50 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
Yes | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Bungee jumping; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Scuba diving; Shooting; Skiing; Sky diving; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |