In Her Own Words
About Her
I believe in chemistry and so I don't really think much of this matching stuff... just because we happen to listen to the same kind of music or enjoy reading means diddle squat. I have been on and off this site many times and am going to try a different approach.... It would really just be so nice to meet a real guy in the age group I am looking in that really is what he claims to be.
There is no such thing as 'no baggage', just like there is no such thing as 'time management'.
So, why should you get to know me? Because I am unique and special and jolly awesome.... well, that's what other people say anyway (blush) I just haven't found that 'click' for a long time. I used to say that I don't sweat the small stuff ~ but in fact I do... because without the small stuff you don't get to relish the big stuff.
I am at an age where I prefer (and demand) to surround myself with people who bring out the best in me ~ I don't have to do things and be with people that I don't like.
I am a very capable, positive, vivacious and most of all...happy person. I have three awesome daughters (28 25 and 23)
I am happily self-employed ~ I'm a hard-core soft-skills facilitator, Resilience Coach, Professional Motivational speaker and copywriter...which basically means that I work for myself ~ I get paid to think, create, write and talk and a lot!
I have a wicked sense of humour, play a mean game of Scrabble, love to read, addicted to socialising, enjoy cooking, house proud and (can be) spontaneous.
I do like the outdoors and animals and sport and travel and blah, blah, blah... but a bullet that is still in me from an armed robbery (that in fact got me twice) does make me think twice about where and what I do.
I look forward to finding my "click".
About Her Ideal Match
Understands that Emotional Quotient is more important than Intelligence Quotient. I am looking for a guy who is fun to be with... someone who gets me and I get him.
Can:
Write
Read
Laugh
Sing in the shower
Dance in the rain
Boil a kettle
Hang up towels
Have a meaningful debate
Cry
What Her Friends Say
Hoodybod hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Woodmead), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
51 - 64 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") - 189cm (6' 2.4") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Making Music; Meditation; Reading; Shopping; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Cricket; Cycling; Darts; Golf; Hiking; Rugby; Squash; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Italian; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Socially |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
