In Her Own Words
About Her
Some of the things that I love are: people who are real, laughing, discussions with people who can make me change my thinking, flowers, good food and coffee, quirkiness, the smell of fynbos, clean sheets, entertaining in my home, singing, walking in the mountains and swimming in brown river water, decorating my home, gardening, smelling the sea, good books ... there are many things that delight me.
Some of the things that I dislike are: arrogance, meanness, stupidity, bad driving .... I could go on. I am, believe it or not, tolerant. But I am quickly bored by the lists of worthy characteristics that so many people put up on this site. I am suspicious of men who say they know how to treat a lady. And I would like to know what the "finer things of life" are - seeing that so many people apparently appreciate them.
I would like to share my life with someone who is independent, kind, clever, warm and funny.
About Her Ideal Match
I won't object if you look like George Clooney but really appearance matters only for about three minutes, and then I'm much more interested in how you think. You like to engage in conversation about ideas. You have thought about many things and have opinions that are original. A sense of humour is an absolute necessity. You are kind. You love life and are interested in lots of things. Although, you get sad sometimes, you are generally up-beat. I like a stance of curiosity, rather than a know-it-all position. You are warm and generous.
Are you the kind of person who seizes the day? Would you suggest some beautiful crazy thing and carry me along with the plan? Are you able to be happy with your own company?
I'm not mad about beards, but I'm ok with close cropped neat beards, and I'm quite intolerant of bad grammar!
What Her Friends Say
Bluewink hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Cape Town), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
60 - 70 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") - 193cm (6' 4.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Pink |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Making Music; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Hiking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Indian; Italian; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
