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flyinghorse

54 – Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa

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Modified: 04 July 2017

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Grahamstown, Eastern Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
54
Star Sign:
Pisces
Height:
167cm (5' 5.7")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Auburn
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
50 - 62
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
178cm (5' 10.1") - 196cm (6' 5.2")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Marital Status:
Never Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Recent pic too! As in the "live" dating scene, appearance makes for first impressions and profile pictures are essential if you'd like me to respond. It would be great if you are articulate, have a high EQ and can spell! Must like animals - horses and cats feature in my life. Age is also an illusion - the actual years don't really matter.

I am looking for interesting and intelligent companionship - men who have a different spiritual outlook on life. Men who know who they are and what they want - both from life and from a companion. And men that don't need women as a crutch - rather in enhancing life experiences. Must be able to communicate, discuss and debate - not looking for a "controller" in my life, been there, done that!

I strongly believe in the synchronicity of life - there are few coincidences. Have a slightly off beat sense of humour and am very direct.

Part of my work involves accepting the inexplicable, allowing the right brain total freedom, communication beyond the ordinary and even sometimes looking at miracles and knowing they happened. The other side of my work operates in the creative and realistic area of the Internet.

I'm well spoken, educated, amd have my own business. I am a keen horseperson - riding, understanding and leisure. Love trail riding and the bush and don't need to be immaculate at all times. Can rough it, but can host the dinner party when needed. However am more comfortable in my heans or jods.

I enjoy all things life has to offer from the finer things like the arts, reading, painting and theatre, to simply appreciating the beauty of the countryside around me.

I also love change - to me it is a challenge and and opportunity to look for new things in life!

About Her Ideal Match

I have learned through experience that the ability to communicate is probably the most important criteria in any relationship - long or short term. Without it, there is nothing.

This is communication on all levels - spiritual, sexual, interests, work, sports and even disagreements and conflicts. If any of these levels are not there you lose your identity in trying to live in an empty space where your own character becomes one of compromise and eventually either becomes so frustrated you go mad, or you leave.

And then there is space to be who you are in an individual way - treating himself and others with respect. Each of us is an individual on one side, and part of a whole as well. I appreciate a man that can be himself and do his own thing, but then share himself completely as well.

But having said all this, at the end of the day there has to be chemistry - from both sides - so I do not have a rigid "profile" in my mind, if it's right we will know. I enjoy physical and emotional intimacy and love touching and being touched, but in the right place and at the right time.

My ideal match would preferably be a man who is literate and can spell, sensitive, spiritual, knows himself and who he is, is caring and warm - passionate about life and his partner, and enjoys the outdoors, sport and animals as well as the arts, opera, theatre and reading.

If you can identify with any of these thoughts, talk to me.

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More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long; Straight; It has its moods
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Daring; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Gold
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport; Variety shows
Movie Preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Westerns
Interests:
Board games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga
Sports:
Archery; Backgammon; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Extreme sports; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Hiking; Horse Riding; Polo; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Snorkeling; Tennis; Walking
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
A regular competitor
Animals:
I like animals
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
Sugar-free; Carb-free
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using Matchmaker:
Hopeful