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Check_Mate

67 – Parys, Free State, South Africa

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In His Own Words

About Him

I promise - not in the damn Free State by choice. A bit of a shock indeed.

A typical Aquarian - an ordinary person with diverse characteristics - hopefully most on the right side of your preferences.

Private
Compassionate
Gentle
Devoted
Straightforward
Cautious
Inquisitive
Respectful
Committed
Impulsive
Honest
Trustworthy
Authentic
Mischievous
Sense of humour (not always understood)
Adventurous
.......................and sane (I think)

I must admit that I am a bit of a shy person, but when I become comfortable with someone, she will get to know me as caring and dedicated. Prepare to be spoilt and appreciated. I am somewhat daring and willing to take a few chances in life. I love spur-of-the-moment decisions and although cautious, I can be impulsive and will surprise with some adventurous ideas.

I am a very compassionate person and somewhat protective over those I care about.

I might live in a grand suburb but my home is a small cottage. I do not have any wealth to offer and I am not interested in any material gain you may be - a relationship is not about possessions, only a chosen lifestyle of simplicity and essential but important values. If not good enough - well then......................

Only a bad product needs promotion, so I will not say much here....you decide as we go along.

Originally from Cape Town

About His Ideal Match

The first put-off is a perfect profile. A self-assessment of 'Very Attractive' could be an inflated ego. Then again, some can upgrade from 'average' to 'attractive'.

Some people may have a perfect self-perception but its the defects that are of more interest than the wonderful person you might describe yourself to be. A match is based on this perception and it could be way off target - either way.

Simply, if you can relate to some of the comments about myself or just tolerate them, we probably have quite a bit in common and a place to start. The rest comes from acceptance and mutual respect of manner and opinion. It is this gap which provides the opportunity to display commitment and contribution to growth in a relationship. The remainder is 'free space' - an allowance of being oneself.

Absolute honesty and authenticity is likely to be the most attractive.
A sense of humanity, compassion towards others and totally unselfish.
Please do not expect me to read between the lines (i.o.w. open communication is important - it saves a lot of time - even a bit forward is ok..in fact it helps a helleva lot)

Red hair, freckles and/or specs are extra turn-ons.
Easy with the make-up - moderate and natural is better.

No Obsessive Compulsive (OCD) tendencies please.

Another thing...If you are looking for someone with a 'wealthy' or 'fat-cat' income, you probably have your eye on the wallet rather than the person. Mine will not be the reason for your affection!!!

If your Home Language = 'Ask me later", I assume it is Afrikaans. Why so shy about it ? Dit is mos n trotse Boere Volk!!
Your Home Town or choice of Username is usually a give-away!! Boksburg is a good clue! I'm fully bilingual - as long as you prefer Pink Floyd to Steve Hofmeyr and the like.

A meaningful and fulfilling relationship with affection, trust and commitment.
Not a social trophy but a personal treasure!

And...a lot more sexier than Mrs Doubtfire!

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Parys, Free State, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
67
Star Sign:
Aquarius
Height:
185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
35 - 69
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 188cm (6' 2.0")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Italian; Norwegian; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I have a goatee
Body Hair:
Average
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outrageous; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Wild & Crazy
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Yellow
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World
Reading:
It's just OK
Books:
Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel
TV Habits:
I mostly use my TV for news or sport
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Westerns
Interests:
Computer programming; Healthy living; Meditation
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Athletics; Boxing; Cricket; Cycling; Field Hockey; Golf; Hiking; Ice Hockey; Motorsport; Polo; Rugby; Snooker; Soccer; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing
Food
Cooking:
I can't or won't cook
Food:
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Volunteering
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Cabin in the mountains
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Doing volunteer work
Feelings about using Matchmaker:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Extremely