About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randburg (Fourways), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Cullinan; Pretoria; Benoni; Boksburg; Brakpan; Kempton Park; Alberton; Bedfordview; Krugersdorp; Midrand; Modderfontein; Randburg; Randfontein; Roodepoort; Sandton; Vanderbijlpark; Vereeniging; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 180cm (5' 10.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
Well, well, well. Fancy meeting you here. We have got catching up to do.
This thing we call life had had me pinned down for too long. Then came COVID and hanmmered a few more nails in. That is why I have consciously decided to start my journey to stop merely existing, and actually living with passion and purpose.
Every day I am getting closer to finding the reason I have been put on this earth. My family and work means a lot, but there is something more. And I will find it.
I am happy married, and we have two beautiful Angel kiddies. My wife and I have a set of boundaries outside society's norm for our marriage: we are both on here, with separate profiles, with the understanding that neither of us will ride off into the sunset with someone else alone, but we still want to explore, preferably with someone we can both love, spoil, treat and nurture.
We're good people, and we treat people well, with respect. Give it a shot.
About His Ideal Match
FULL DISCLOSURE:
My wife and I are adventurous in exploring our sexuality and relationship, so we're open to great and potentially intimate friends and connections. No pressure for you to be with both of us, but that would be the ideal.
Looking for a female partner who:
* Is comfortable in her own skin, regardless of her perfect imperfections.
* Has a good sense of humour, but knows when to be serious.
* Can enjoy both simple things things in life, as well as sophistication.
* Is Intelligent and can hold a conversation.
* Can participate in serious and light hearted conversations.
* Good temperament, even if she has a bad day now and then. We all do.
* Someone who can look past society's narrow view of intimacy and relationships.
If anything you read here offends you, kindly move on. This is a serious lifestyle choice for us.
What His Friends Say
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More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Straight; Curly; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Dancesport; Darts; Fencing; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Pool; Rugby; Running; Shooting; Snooker; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Triathlon; Volleyball; Walking; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
