In His Own Words
About Him
YOU SHOULD GET TO KNOW ME, BECAUSE... I am an old soul, but not left behind in the past. I am a gentle, caring person, but strong when the situation calls for it. I am a hard worker and financially stable, but I am not uptight about money and make time for things outside of work. I am a dedicated father and husband, but love occasional time all alone by myself.
That is the paradox of me. What's the paradox of you?
About His Ideal Match
Looking for a lady who:
* Is comfortable in her own skin.
* Has a good sense of humour.
* Can decide... One way or the other...
* Can hold (and participate in) a conversation.
* Good temperament, in general.
* Someone who can look past society's narrow view of intimacy and relationships.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Randburg (Fourways), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Other | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Married; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Struggling; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Straight; Well-behaved; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Sport; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Investing; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Dancesport; Darts; Fencing; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Pool; Rugby; Running; Shooting; Snooker; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Diabetic |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
We swing |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
