In His Own Words
About Him
Friends say that I am witty, intelligent and a stable and good friend. You would have to judge for yourself though! I can hold my own in any kind of conversation, even when the latest women's fashion is being discussed :-). I'm informed, but not a know-it-all. I'm funny, but not lighthearted. I'm serious at times, but not a stuck-up sourpuss. I take my work seriously, but life with a pinch of salt - otherwise I would have cut my wrists in style with the Moulinex electric knife long ago! I'm a realistic optimist, but have been taken for a few too many rides (unfortunately not free) during my lifetime, to be falling for just everything any more! I actually do like myself, yes,... but not that much that I'm full of myself. I'm always interested in other people and their lives, their well-being and trials and tribulations. I am contented with life. I can still stop and look at and appreciate a beautiful sunset. Everything does not have to be over the top. The biggest "Wow"'s still lies within the smallest of things. I like people! In short,.. I'm just a plain average guy. Just a plain "Harry" seeking to meet a friendly and matching "Sally"! Are YOU the one I have been looking for for so long?
About His Ideal Match
I am looking for somebody who'll be able to put a smile on my face every day. She must have a good sense of humour, - be able to make and take a joke. Somebody who is comfortable and contented with herself and who can also joke about her own shortcomings. Somebody who can also see the silver lining around the dark clouds when they appear. Somebody who understands that life is not a fairytale, but that it is worth living in full anyway. Somebody who is realistic enough to realise that everything is not always perfect, and should we always only be looking out for that perfect situation, that "perfvect" person, that life might just pass us by during the waiting period, and then it might be too late before we realise that it's all over! Somebody who has a kind and soft heart and who can see the beauty in every person. Somebody who has a soft spot for animals, children and old people alike. Somebody who cares about herself and also about other people. Somebody with integrity and loyalty. Somebody who posesses a presence. Somebody with an opinion about matters and situations, who does not always just agrees with her man, but to whom it is also not important to always be "right". Somebody who knows what she wants from a soulmate and life in general and who is willing to take a chance to find it. Somebody who is just herself. No big pretence, no big ego, no snobbishness, no unrealistic expectations and someone who has no negative baggage left. Someone who understands that at our age, we all do have 'baggage',.. but that it's not necessarily a bad situation to be in. Somebody who is still passionate about life in a whole, despite some set-backs in the past. Someone who has come to learn that the end-result is not the most important aspect, but the journey that takes one there. Did you play fair, honest, were you giving and did you arrive at your destination with dignity. Did you stick to the rules to get to the "Win"? If you are and you did,.. then you're my kind of girl! Please contact me?!
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Pretoria East), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
168cm (5' 6.1") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
Dutch; English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
32 - 52 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 168cm (5' 6.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Chinese; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Japanese; Korean; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a moustache |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Reality shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Camping; Fishing; Golf; Hiking; Martial arts; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
