Two-Way Match

?%

Join and create your free profile today to see how well you match with her, and hundreds more.

Join now

Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Gender:
Female
Age:
49
Star Sign:
Virgo
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Changes Often
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Chinese
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school
Occupation:
Teacher / Professor
Income:
Enough

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
38 - 50
Star Sign:
Aries; Taurus; Cancer; Virgo; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I am an extremely independant person who loves arts and crafts, reading, quiet evenings at home and the simpler side of life. At the moment, I am living and working in China. I spent too many years in the corporate environment, selling advertising space. About six years ago, I made a decision to change my life, and what a change it has been... I've met lots of people, done lots of different things, and have the most wonderful two year old in the world.... After teaching and running a few different English schools in China, I now find myself in Shanghai, working at the head office of an English Language Teaching Business and writing content for teaching. I'm desparately longing to return home and re-connect with people who have a similar mindset and understand what makes life worth living. I'm not really in the market for a serious romance at the moment, but I'd love to chat with likeminded, non-superficial, "real" people... Drop me a line if you'd like to connect.

About Her Ideal Match

Right now romance would be very difficult considering my location on the planet - but see if you can relate to this.

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question "What kind of man are you looking for?"

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said "Yes."
She began to expound... "As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter.I am in the position to ask,"What can you bring to the table?"
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and state, "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go thru as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I'm looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. "When she finished, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, "You are asking a lot. "She replied, "I'm worth a lot."

What Her Friends Say

souljourney doesn't have any recommendations from friends yet.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Medium; Curly; It has its moods
Body Art:
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Obscure
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic; Shy
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Doesn't matter; Greek; Italian; Seafood; Thai
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Opera
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Romance; Self-help
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Talk shows
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Knitting; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Fish
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Dream Home:
Beach house
Retirement Plans:
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Honesty:
Extremely