In His Own Words
About Him
I am not the average man. If you are not the average woman, you might find me interesting. I am creative, free thinking, with an open mind and open heart.
I have lived and worked on all 5 continents. I have a wondering soul that loves to explore this beautiful planet. I am now creating a home base in Wilderness in the Garden Route, where I've lived most of my adult life. (I grew up in Cape Town.) I'm looking for a sexy, free soul travel buddy, spiritual collaborator and companion.
I work in wellness and holistic health. I am into yoga, meditation, qi gong, breathwork and am also a semi-professional musician and sculptor.
I am a sensual being and love sharing affection and time together.
I give great massages. Emotional and physical intimacy are important to me.
I love salsa dancing and intuitive partner dancing.
I have my own home, with a lot of space for someone to come live with me.
I am a cultured, intelligent,well educated man in excellent health, fitness and attitude.
I am spiritually minded and I base my interactions on the meeting place between mind, body and heart. The mind and heart are what make us human and attractive to each other.
I am a lover of beauty and imperfection. The cracks let the light in. Soft and vulnerable, exposing the inner, sublime, blissful self-nature.
I'm into sacred sexuality and tantra. I believe our fantasies are keys to experiencing our full nature, and when we act them out in a safe and consensual way we access the hidden depth of our power and joy.
About His Ideal Match
You are looking for a long term committed relationship with an intelligent, creative, well traveled and cultured man.
You look after yourself and have a good relationship with your own body and it's pleasures.
Ideally, you had a healthy upbringing with loving parents, or you've processed most of your childhood traumas, and have done the inner work required to be in a relationship without projections, blame, guilt, shame and drama.
You have compassion for humanity.
You are creative and progressive, with liberal values, spiritual but not religious.
You like dancing with a partner.
You are a fiery feminist (feminism is for everybody), but are able to appreciate traditional gender roles, (such as in salsa dancing), and are able to switch between being appropriately submissive and dominant as the situation demands.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
George (Wilderness), Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
177cm (5' 9.7") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
India; French Polynesia | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 177cm (5' 9.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; White | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Self-employed; Other | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Wild |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Kindness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Date Activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Electronic Dance Music; Latin; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Sci-Fi |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Sculpting; Woodworking; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Chess; Dancesport; Rock climbing; Sailing; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Indian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |