In His Own Words
About Him
On the surface - a friendly, intelligent, educated, well-travelled and sociable guy. Totally acceptable to family and friends.
Yet lurking beneath the surface lies a very different personality - a man fully accepting of feminism, of the rights of women and their value to society. A man seeking matriarchy and agreeing to abide by whatever lifestyle you deem most appropriate - including role reversal in certain spheres of life. You shall discover that I am non-argumentative, accepting of your leadership and decisions, compliant and willing to do whatever it takes to ensure your happiness and satisfaction. None of the above in any way implies that I am weak, indecisive or looking to escape from responsibility. To the contrary - my lifestyle choices reflect my honesty, willingness to communicate and desire to build a relationship based on honesty.
About His Ideal Match
Difficult to verbalise as emotions and personality play vital roles. Ideally a woman who has the strength of character and imagination to rise above conformity and walk the path best suited to her needs and future plans. She would feel comfortable in a leadership role and accept my willingness to submit to her without any conscience or guilt , with the intent to make the absolute best of what is possible with my support and compliance. Using me to make her life easier, less stressful and more fun. Chores done for her, pampered and respected, loved and appreciated in every way.
What I describe is not the 'norm' yet can lead to a relationship in which honesty, communication and respect bring us much closer together than any conventional relationship.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
66 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
174cm (5' 8.5") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
39 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Cricket; Hiking; Rugby; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work part-time |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Quite |