In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm an introvert by nature. This makes getting to know people difficult. But once I trust you I'm witty and fun.
I love spending time at home with my 2 fur-babies. And it's home, not just a house. I love doing the home thing. Cooking, decorating, making things, gardening... My home is my solace.
I work from home and one day when I find the time I'll finish my yoga course. Yes, I'm spiritual. And probably religious to a degree, but we can talk about that later.
Wow, this is intimidating. Hello random strangers I'd probably never greet in real life... Yes, that just hit me again...
I love love love music. I could probably do with picking up some weight. And gosh darn it do I like to think random things at random times.
I do not own a TV. I do binge on Netflix (literally watched Bridgerton and The Queen's Gambit in one shot on two separate nights). When I work I work hard. And in my time off I' hardly ever sitting still... My dad's parents were self-made millionaires - my grandmother taught me a LOT about making the most of your time, money and effort.
Also, I'm smart. This intimidates people. Not just the booksmart kind. Like the I struggle to socialize because I'm on a different mental level kind of smart. I find it exceedingly frustrating that the world is becoming more and more like Idiocracy every single day.
About Her Ideal Match
MUST LOVE DOGS - cheesy, I know. But they're my kids. Plants are the new pets. I have loads of those too...
Intelligent - not necessarily formally educated, but not a pleb either, I need someone who isn't going to go into a shame spiral or fit of rage every time I point something obvious out because I will be blunt and honest and it will probably bruise your ego at least a little.
Money-wise - you don't need to be a millionaire, but you certainly shouldn't be a spendthrift.
Outdoorsy/Crafty/Sporty - I spend most of my free time outside, making things or exercising in some way. I do not want someone who's going to tell me to "just chill for a bit". Been there. Done that. It makes me miserable.
RESPECT & HONESTY - If you've made it this far....
I'm a strong-willed independent woman that can make it on my own. I'm not looking for a hero. I'm even less inclined to take on a rescue. I am looking for someone who can respect me. Who is willing to get to know me. Who wants to build a life WITH me - not for me or, worst case scenario I build and you just jump on for the ride. Nope. This will be a 2-way street. So yes, I cook, I clean, I do yoga... But I can very easily rip you a new one if you cross the line, so please don't tempt me.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
White River, Mpumalanga, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
38 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
White River (Mpumalanga, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
27 - 38 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
188cm (6' 2.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Arabic; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Turkish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Other; Agriculture; Political | ||
Income: |
Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Wild |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Navel ring; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Body building; Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Chess; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |