In His Own Words
About Him
Affable, active, Alpha guy - well traveled, educated and financially secure - also active, sporty, sociable and laid back with an unusual take on life - especially women. Yes I am, in some ways, conventional - love spending time with family and friends, eating in great restaurants, hiking in nature, travelling, etc. - but I have another dimension which is very different to the norm. I thrive in a Female Led relationship - in whichever form it manifests. Unlike most men I am able to overcome my ego so as to better serve my partner - placing her needs before my own and accepting that my pleasure must be derived from her pleasure - unless she chooses otherwise.
About His Ideal Match
A confident, assertive, educated, happy, intelligent, sporty, dominant woman - preferably sapiosexual- who is comfortable with who she is and proudly feminine. She has imagination matched with a strong personality and the drive to achieve. Someone whom I can learn to love, respect, admire, desire, serve and obey within a female led relationship in which, by mutual agreement, we are not equal - and she has ultimate control. This requires a very special relationship based on absolute trust, honesty and very upfront and open communication. It also requires us, as a couple to have 2 dimensions to the relationship - a public dimension in which I am the perfect gentleman and defer to you in a manner that makes all your friends jealous - yet not too obviously. In our more private dimension I will always be available to submit and serve you - fulfilling your desires and complying with your demands, fantasies and flings. This enable you to delegate many chores to me - freeing up your time to focus on doing what you enjoy. Over time - as trust develops, your confidence grows and we become more comfortable with our relationship - so your dominance can evolve as you train and mold me to meet your needs. Ultimately - whilst I am committed to remain monogamous, you could seek pleasure with others should you so choose. This is a unique form of relationship which can result in a very close, fulfilling and complete connection - truly special and empowering the female.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Sarcastic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Devotion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Mystery |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Mystery |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Cricket; Cycling; Hiking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
