In Her Own Words
About Her
Very happily married woman with a wonderful husband, amazing family and lots to celebrate. My hubby is considerably older than me and his love for me is so all encompassing that, despite us enjoying an exceptional sex life, he has encouraged me to explore obtaining pleasure from others - whilst he remains monogamous and dedicated to me and my pleasure. Simultaneously I have begun taking more of a leadership role in our relationship. This is something that we have discussed at length - not wanting anything to happen that might negatively impact upon our truly special relationship. After much debating and consideration I have agreed - providing he is always present at any liaisons I might have - not as a participant, but rather as a spectator and my protector.
He shall always be included in discussing and finding suitable dates for me - saving me time by wading through mail and suggesting whom I should chat with.. Doing so will allow me to tease him and add to the thrill and anticipation we shall share. This will ensure that he will never wonder about who I am with or where I am. It will make me feel incredibly loved to have such freedom, whilst also thrilling me to seek pleasure with whomever I desire without any negative feelings - a win win for all concerned and further proof to me of my husband's devotion and love.
About Her Ideal Match
I have no major preconceived ideas about whom I shall meet - just some preferences. I prefer clean shaven, non-smoking, tall, educated sapiosexual men with the ability to have proper conversations via email before we meet - as well as being hygienic and respecting whatever boundaries we agree on. Ideally, I seek a man between 38 - 63 yrs with some life experience, who will accept that my husband shall always be a spectator at our liaisons. Obviously he should be adept at pleasing a woman (I luv foot massages), understanding her needs and satisfying both her and his own needs whilst accepting the limitations of our union. This is purely a means to explore additional sexual avenues and maximize pleasure without 'dating' or having to deal with complex emotional issues. I do not wish to jump from one man to another - so it would be great if some long term arrangement could be explored.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
171cm (5' 7.3") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
38 - 63 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Canoeing; Cycling; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Hiking; Running; Sailing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in an open relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Eco home in the bush |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
