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kitty_637

55 – City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa

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In Her Own Words

About Her

Very happily married woman with a wonderful husband, amazing family and lots to celebrate. My hubby is considerably older than me and his love for me is so all encompassing that, despite us enjoying an exceptional sex life, he has encouraged me to explore obtaining pleasure from others - whilst he remains monogamous and dedicated to me and my pleasure. Simultaneously I have begun taking more of a leadership role in our relationship. This is something that we have discussed at length - not wanting anything to happen that might negatively impact upon our truly special relationship. After much debating and consideration I have agreed - providing he is always present at any liaisons I might have - not as a participant, but rather as a spectator and my protector.
He shall always be included in discussing and finding suitable dates for me - saving me time by wading through mail and suggesting whom I should chat with.. Doing so will allow me to tease him and add to the thrill and anticipation we shall share. This will ensure that he will never wonder about who I am with or where I am. It will make me feel incredibly loved to have such freedom, whilst also thrilling me to seek pleasure with whomever I desire without any negative feelings - a win win for all concerned and further proof to me of my husband's devotion and love.

About Her Ideal Match

I have no major preconceived ideas about whom I shall meet - just some preferences. I prefer clean shaven, non-smoking, tall, educated sapiosexual men with the ability to have proper conversations via email before we meet - as well as being hygienic and respecting whatever boundaries we agree on. Ideally, I seek a man between 38 - 63 yrs with some life experience, who will accept that my husband shall always be a spectator at our liaisons. Obviously he should be adept at pleasing a woman (I luv foot massages), understanding her needs and satisfying both her and his own needs whilst accepting the limitations of our union. This is purely a means to explore additional sexual avenues and maximize pleasure without 'dating' or having to deal with complex emotional issues. I do not wish to jump from one man to another - so it would be great if some long term arrangement could be explored.

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About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
City Bowl, Cape Town, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
55
Star Sign:
Scorpio
Height:
171cm (5' 7.3")
Body Type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Ask me later

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
38 - 63
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Slightly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Curly
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
Pierced ears
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Favourite Clothing:
I'm most comfortable naked
Favourite Colour:
Green
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Mystery; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sport; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Art Films; Drama; Independent; Mystery
Interests:
Board games; Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Writing books; Yoga
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Bodyboarding; Canoeing; Cycling; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Hiking; Running; Sailing; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm in an open relationship
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Eco home in the bush
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using Matchmaker:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely