In His Own Words
About Him
I always hold back (the story of my life). I guess I'm just tired of hesitating, and waiting for something good to happen, so lets try and do something about this. I'm down to earth and a good listener. I'm a little reserved (but admittedly, I've been told that I have a vivid imagination). I'm trying to work harder, because I want so much more than 'this' (whatever 'this' is).
I've got no intentions of messing anyone around, and for me, giving and making someone else happy, is 1 the best feelings to experience (and that was today's Hallmark moment).
As for the rest...
There is a whole lot more to me than what I put forward. All this profile stuff is just a drop in the ocean. And if you don't buy all this innocent stuff... then we need to do something about that.
About His Ideal Match
I don't want to be forced into anything, and I admit to having doubts. So, honesty is important, because you never really know what peoples' intentions are.
Someone who can look beyond what they think they see. Someone who can feel free to be himself and learn more, even if he's got reservations (which is something I'm still trying to learn, so... a little help maybe ?).
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Southern Suburbs (Unspecified Suburb), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Coloured | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cape Town Metro (Western Cape, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
33 - 44 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
170cm (5' 6.9") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Hairy |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Shopping; Surfing the Internet |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Watching TV or a movie |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Loft in the city |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
