In Her Own Words
About Her
I'm a single mom with two kids, 22 and 16. I am comfortable with people and even-natured but prefer to have only a select few intimate friends. I love travelling but don't do enough of it yet. I have a great sense of humour which has been my saving grace in life's most difficult challenges. I always find the comical in life ... we have to! I believe in God's guidance and provision in my life. I'm still a hopeless romantic who believes in finding my soulmate. I'm also a social entrepreneur and I'm currently building towards my financial independence. I like reading, watching a good movie ... TV bores me. I'm a singer who will eventually realise that dream. I like creating things. I'm definitely a super optimist and see the glass as half full of water and the other half filled with air.
About Her Ideal Match
A mature, self confident man who is settled in life. Someone who is prepared to risk his emotions and become seriously involved. Someone who knows how to handle conflict and how to communicate. A person who would like to travel with me and want to spend time together. He must appreciate physical closeness and intimacy and not have a problem with open displays of affection. A good sense of humour is a must ... And the ability to laugh at yourself a definite plus! I'm a straightforward person and I know what and who I want. I will never again settle for less.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Centurion (Doringkloof), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White; Shaved | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Purple |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Business; Fantasy; Fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Making Music; Photography; Reading; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Cricket; Dancesport; Gymnastics; Ice Skating; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Matchmaker: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
