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54 – Bedfordview (Kensington), Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: More than 6 months ago

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About Him

Country of Origin:
Ireland
Location:
Bedfordview (Kensington), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
54
Star Sign:
Aries
Height:
188cm (6' 2.0")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
None
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Central & Western Gauteng (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
37 - 47
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasional; Regular
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

Let me start with honesty. Men are as nervous as you ,we want to make a good impression,we are not all out for a quickie,we want what you want, I will be honestWith you & expect the same. I love music but not radio trash , good movies & my humour is nervous energy, finally bought a moutain bike , you would need a sense of humour & patience & im way friendlier than i look ;-). Have been known to Dj an Indie or Motown track or two around jo'burg,have an radio show listen to it and you will understand me.im dry,love proper ale, smart but IQ is just a multiple choice exercise & I battle with shoelaces!!,challenged by ordinary life but never daunted.Love movies,humourous books & still trying to write that classic 3min pop song in my challenged guitar style Love football & cricket,want darts to be an olympic sport ! Blessed with ADHD But have a great job with heaps of responsibility & I do it well.But also sort of shy & not at selling myself a first impression isn't me & the more time you give me the more I hope you will enjoy me ,love quiet times and the rowdy times. DVD weekends with a sofa & snacks, a weekend away or a good party night are all as important to me. I'm not the smoothering type & space is important to me especially at the start as it ruins the future dont you think?
Too old to be young & too young to be old ,I think I have figured out what a relationship should be & if you don't offer a hand then you will never have a hand held out for you.

About His Ideal Match

Fun, tall, slim,with a love of proper music enjoys sushi and spices & trying something new from time to time. A discreet Tattoo is ok and liberal in outlook and adventurous in spirit. looking for the kind of girl who actually believes that a sense of humour is the most important quality and will be honest to the point of heartbreak or rapture ,enjoy deep , dark, light & stupid movies,open minded & adventurous,no loud party girls ,must enjoy quiet things as well noisy things.football is important to me (but not for the obvious reasons) you dont have to watch just understand why i do.
It would be great if she could accomodate my bad habits as i will hers and frankly i dont care a jot if you dont want a smoker as i might not want a cat lover (like them but allergic to to them) but it wouldnt put me off if we felt right and also its not about money,status,where you live,what you wear,drive or know its about no pretence and feeling you have met an equal so its a big goodbye to the shallow type errr dont think im helping my cause here but hey you only live once unless your a Budhist and im not!.... Anyway thats off my chest at last.
Would be nice but not critical if you could help me answer the big questions of life. Why are we here , what comes after hello, exactly how do i tie a tie and why is the Truworths mens shoe range so awful ;-).
And I also discovered that I'm pretty rubbish at this cyber dating stuff so bear with me !
Ideal Date
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you , me a drink and flowing conversation and a love of ironic humour, having a laugh is a lovely feeling isnt it?. and if you said you had a good time then mean it! If friendship flows with no attraction then I am ok with it because I'm not here for an easy score I'm here because I'm looking for a life partner.

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Straight; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Smooth
Disabilities:
I have a chronic illness
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Shy
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Folk; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; History; Mystery; Non-fiction
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Acting; Board games; Cooking; Making Music; Reading; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Backgammon; Cricket; Darts; Mountain biking; Snooker; Soccer
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I always put in overtime
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family Size:
I'm an only child
Family Closeness:
I don't have any family!
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s)
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Politics:
Anarchic
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Feelings about using Matchmaker:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Extremely