In His Own Words
About Him
I am a friendly person who is trustworthy,compassionate and kind.A simpleton,I enjoy the company of people who are themselves.Introverted and shy...(I cannot believe I'm on this site,seriously!)I'm not desperate,but do realize the importance of companionship that comes with age and maturity. I believe in the concept of karma('Its not who you are,but what you do that defines you!')There is more to life than fame and fortune.I am principled and somewhat of a pragmatic realist,strongwilled yet forgiving.High IQ,I possess excellent general knowledge and enjoy watching and playing sports.Yes,I am athletic!(Still play league and club cricket to keep fit.Love swimming as well!)I love being with people who are true to themselves and not double talkers or with pride.I love watching movies especially science fiction and thrillers,romantic comedies,drama.Don't get me wrong...'I ain't no couch potatoe!'I believe in earning respect through hard work and honesty.Passionate about education,wildlife and life in general!Oh yes...just one more thing!NO PLAY"asses" AlLOWED!If you are looking for an 'Adonis' with a big car,a bigger house and the biggest wallet to go along with,my suggestion is...LOOK ELSEWHERE!
About His Ideal Match
Honest,loyal and faithful with strong culture and family value.Sure about herself yet dignified and mature in her thinking with calm playful demeanor.Supportive and kind to others. Loves sports and having meaningful,stimulating conversations.Interests in science or good general knowledge and philosophy.Important to have a good sense of humour and be empathetic towards others .Assertive yet persuasive with kindness and tolerance...('Yes,unlike most guys out there,possesiveness to me can actually be a good thing, provided she is not overly obsessive though!') ,She has to accept me for who I am on the inside!!!
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Phoenix), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
48 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Black | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
KwaZulu-Natal; Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 45 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Haven't completed high / secondary school; High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Smooth |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fantasy; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Athletics; Baseball; Basketball; Chess; Cricket; Darts; Running; Soccer; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
