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ForeverYoungatHart

51 – Sandton (Lonehill), Gauteng, South Africa

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In His Own Words

About Him

"I'm thoughtful, trustworthy, loving, gentle, etc, etc" - almost everybody says those things, it doesn't mean that they are true. That may make me sound like a sceptic but I'm just a realist - actions speak louder than words. I'm not "one of the boys" and I'm not an extrovert so I may come across as shy or rude but I promise you that I do talk a LOT once I get to know you. Unlike some people I will admit that a person's physical appearance catches my attention first but looks will not keep me interested - I've learned that physical attraction alone very rarely leads to a successful long term relationship. Something you need to know is that I'm still friends with most of the ladies I've dated but it's purely because they are good people - it is not a FWB situation! If you've read this far I need to be upfront and tell you that I do have a son who's 27 already(yep you read right). I raised him as a single parent but he has completed his CA and has his own house now - that should explain my answer to the kids question. If you have children that really doesn't worry me because I love being around kids. I've broken a couple of hearts in my life but never on purpose and I've had my heart broken a couple of times (I still don't know which feels worse because I hate hurting people just as much as I hate being hurt). There is no baggage on my side as I've been single for over 6 years now - in fact some of my friends have given me the nick-name "monk" because I don't do 1 night stands either (you can draw your own conclusions about what that means lol). Some ladies find me very attractive and some don't find me attractive at all - We all have our own 'taste'. Hopefully I haven't bored you to death already because I wanted to add that I was being facetious when answering the personality question - obviously everyone has a personality of some sort :-)

About His Ideal Match

Let me start by saying "You don't love someone because they are beautiful; they are beautiful because you love them!" Having said that, let's face the 'ugly truth', it's human nature to judge a book by its cover - physical attraction is the first thing that sparks an interest and then you gauge whether there is also an attraction on an intellectual/emotional level after spending time with each other - That's what makes this dating thing so difficult but the effort is worth it - It's easy to fall into 'lust' but difficult to find true love! YES, I'm a romantic at heart but not in a soppy way.
There is no such thing as a perfect person - We are all unique, but there are certain qualities that are appealing to me - Someone that is funny, intelligent, caring, compassionate, and trusting. Stunning eyes and a gorgeous smile will normally catch my attention BUT if they are also honest, genuine and caring they may capture my heart. I work hard to stay in shape so I ideally prefer ladies that also look after themselves emotionally and physically.
Most importantly I believe the ideal partner is someone who I can share a friendship with and with whom I share a mutual attraction on both a physical and intellectual/emotional level. Mutual respect of each other's feelings is one of the corner stones of any great relationship. I like CONFIDENT women, not in a vane kind of way but in a way that she knows she is beautiful on all levels and doesn't feel the need to grovel at a persons feet. I have some beautiful former girlfriends and friends so I need someone that has the confidence to trust me. The only guarantee I can make is that I never have and never will two time anybody - That is totally against my morals and values!

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Sandton (Lonehill), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
51
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
185cm (6' 0.8")
Body Type:
Athletic
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Finance
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
32 - 50
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
154cm (5' 0.6") - 187cm (6' 1.6")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; English
Religion:
Agnostic; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Straight; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
I don't have one
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Green
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I enjoy it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Writing books
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Athletics; Bowling; Cricket; Cycling; Field Hockey; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Rugby; Running; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Walking; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; South African; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Pastimes of choice:
Volunteering
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got sisters
Family Closeness:
We're very close
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using Matchmaker:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely