In Her Own Words
About Her
Introduce me to a vibe I've never felt!!
VOETSTOOTS! If it's temporary I don't want it! Ek wil weer bemin word. I stand small & sometimes have no idea. But I am so blessed! My dear God - thank You, for everything! If you are looking for me, I'll be right here, IN THE MOMENT! This is where I live. I'm ready for some blessings which aren't in disguise. So much has been given to me, I have no time to ponder over what has been denied. Not looking for a million things, just one perfect thing. LOVE. I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. I'm celebrating love. Im happy & grateful and blessed, but it was in the depths of winter I finally learnt that there was in me an invincible summer. Simple things make me happy. Im living with passion every day to the maximum, growing as a person, being healthy and being the best I can be. Far from flawless but comfortable in my own skin. Not afraid of perfection coz nobody made it yet... Im looking to make amazing new memories to last me the rest of my lifetime. Im undiscovered and unwritten and just not prepared to waste anymore time. I have to be experienced. Words on paper can never explain me. I know what I dont want and I'm NOT willing to work around it. That's just the thing about life, it happens IN you not TO you, so. I've learned from the past and I'm trusting my instinct. Life and more specifically LOVE holds nothing against us personally. With that said, I'm loads of fun and I'm open to new suggestions and possibilities. If you look for fame, you lose your soul. If you look for creation, you find it. Creativity is endless and there is a whole world thereof inside me. Life is meant to be colourful. Who'll appreciate this slowly molded, carefully matured woman of substance that I have become over the years? Introduce me to the MAN you are... PS: hier binne klop n boere hart en ek KAN in Afrikaans vry! My jeans is cheap en my liefde is verniet!
About Her Ideal Match
If I read "fun-loving" once more Im gonna pass out! Anyone authentic out there? Guys, pay attention to the nickname than you tag yourself with. Before you've even said a word it already speaks volumes to me. If you call yourself something like 'PartyAnimal' don't expect a reply from me. I have a theory that if someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time. Not negotiable means NOT NEGOTIABLE!! Pay attention to detail. Respect my choices. I won't change my mind. If I can't see your picture you will NOT receive a response. If you're looking for cheap thrills, pass me by coz you're WAY too shallow, predictable & superficial for me! AND if you're a married man, get off this site! Grow a spine, man up to your responsibilities & don't even think about contacting me! I'm NOT interested. Being really who you are & present, is the best & ONLY deal. Exclusivity comes at a price! Im willing to pay. Im here coz I also get lonely & I'm looking for my Soulmate. Funny thing about that is, if you don't care about my soul, you can never be my Soulmate. He is someone with an amazing sense of humour, values, integrity and direction i.e. I want a REAL MAN, a companion, a friend, a lover, a partner. Not a boss, a suboardinate, a manipulator or desperado. Just an attractive but not perfect, stunning, intelligent, down to earth, nice, normal guy that enjoys the simple things in life. One that realises that I am both a woman and a mother. Im not looking for a father for my children nor someone to look after me. I want someone for me, that I can enjoy & have loads of fun with that will love me for ME. Someone that is unselfish & to whom money isn't his world and his world isn't money. I want to spoil him & be spoiled by him without the tally running. DONT LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY YOUR PAST, PEOPLE AND MONEY! I have SO MUCH love to give and I'm ready for the MAN of my wildest dreams. YES! I dream of being swept off my feet by him. Fairy tales and miracles DO exist. We just don't see them anymore. The key is to BELIEVE.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Johannesburg (Sunninghill), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
156cm (5' 1.4") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
169cm (5' 6.5") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Wild; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Silly; Stable; Wild & Crazy |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Silver |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Science / Technology; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
My TV is never off |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Soap operas; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Knitting; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Body building; Boxing; Camping; Chess; Dancesport; Darts; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Shooting; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Weight training; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
